Who are you?
I'm a child of God, an avid reader, a Catholic, infertile, human to 3 wonderful cats, an aunt, cousin, daughter, granddaughter, American, ballroom dancer, wife, home owner, gardener, coupon clipper, organizer (maybe even a hint OCD), lousy correspondent but generous gift giver, and much more.
It's not easy to do, but instead of asking "What do you do?" or "Do you have children?" maybe we can start asking more interesting, creative questions. "What do you like to do in your free time?" or "Tell me a little more about yourself." or even "What kind of food do you like?" even "Do you have pets?"