tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post8400384300962216984..comments2023-09-22T13:41:50.184-04:00Comments on Chateau d'IF: Fear and GuiltStephanie Zhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08435698159183117354noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-62407665604546441942014-01-11T14:44:22.881-05:002014-01-11T14:44:22.881-05:00Yes to all of this! Sending prayers your way. Hopi...Yes to all of this! Sending prayers your way. Hoping for good news for you guys! Stephanie @ Blessed to Behttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15432625948200484509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-39713474773372257272014-01-11T10:55:00.021-05:002014-01-11T10:55:00.021-05:00Every time I make it past P+14 I have those same t...Every time I make it past P+14 I have those same thoughts it is scary and exciting. Hoping you hang in there and get a bfp. HugsMike Brummondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15276797377377334510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-80891306541172276592014-01-11T08:37:47.188-05:002014-01-11T08:37:47.188-05:00You've nailed it... for whatever reason, I did...You've nailed it... for whatever reason, I didn't think about a lot of these things before getting pregnant, but since then its all hit me hard. Especially the anxiety of the transition--as you said, we know all about being infertile--and that even becomes a sort of "comfort zone--so when that positive test comes along it really is a big adjustment. My husband didn't get that when I tried to explain it to him those first couple of months... Plus, that lack of confidence that the wait is over--we all know (via Facebook/blogs) a disproportionate number of women who have been through late-term losses, and I think that skews our perception of the possibility. <br /><br />Prayers for you, and I hope you get your BFP! And that you find peace if you don't--remember that even with a perfectly working body, its normal to take a few tries...Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06914343351803930748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-39251757778772636382014-01-11T00:24:55.745-05:002014-01-11T00:24:55.745-05:00Yup all these feelings and emotions I know well. I...Yup all these feelings and emotions I know well. I do hope and pray that you get a BFP and like Rebecca said, that you are soon learning how to be a mom. Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13670331855264293102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-9098449246734575102014-01-10T19:32:21.763-05:002014-01-10T19:32:21.763-05:00I recently came across your blog and first time co...I recently came across your blog and first time commenting. I hope you are pregnant. What ever the outcome I hope you have some peace from the guilt, anxious feelings and fear. Praying for you. Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12928196702575539293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-54406828285886772392014-01-10T17:22:39.928-05:002014-01-10T17:22:39.928-05:00The few times I've made it to the eve of "...The few times I've made it to the eve of "I'll test tomorrow" I've had very similar thoughts. I found myself nodding along when you said "I know a lot about being infertile and childless." And my heart broke for you :(.<br /><br />I'm sending lots and lots of prayers your way - and hoping along with you that there is BFP announcement 'round here very soon. Oh, and hoping that you are very soon learning all about being a mom!<br /><br />Prayers and (((hugs))).Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04738076740941616678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-6303123005657457732014-01-10T14:19:03.325-05:002014-01-10T14:19:03.325-05:00Praying for you in the midst of ALL the emotions!Praying for you in the midst of ALL the emotions!Catholic Mutthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10254315970336710941noreply@blogger.com