tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post8366807970242013223..comments2023-09-22T13:41:50.184-04:00Comments on Chateau d'IF: Performance PressureStephanie Zhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08435698159183117354noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-89028048424432376922014-08-28T08:01:17.521-04:002014-08-28T08:01:17.521-04:00We've never had to time sex for intercourse, y...We've never had to time sex for intercourse, yet anyways. But we do struggle with putting I's on the chart because of me and my wacky hormone levels. We've started to "schedule" I days. I hate that we have to do it, but it's better than not doing it. For me, I feel like because I know it's coming later that day, I have all day to think about it and get ready for it since my hormones aren't really making we want to. It has been working so far. So, my thoughts for you include not being afraid to "schedule" it. Is it ideal? No. Is it still unitive? Absolutely. Hopefully it will help you both prepare and commit to the schedule. Praying for you!Chellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04237286808649279346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-63593593173357876942014-08-27T18:36:23.187-04:002014-08-27T18:36:23.187-04:00I like your every other day idea. This is a hard b...I like your every other day idea. This is a hard balance to strike. Used to super over analyze my charts and I's after each cycle, it only got better for me once we stopped treatment and I stopped charting. Hope the next few months go well.Mike Brummondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15276797377377334510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-57450551863830184772014-08-26T21:15:21.802-04:002014-08-26T21:15:21.802-04:00I think you have good ideas here. Keeping an eye ...I think you have good ideas here. Keeping an eye on my husband's stress at work was something I definitely had to do (when he was working) and sometimes that meant changing the time of day we'd aim for. I like Kat's idea to flirt. Maybe plan some date-like activities to help the romance side of things? I wrote on this topic a little last year, but I'm not sure it was entirely helpful.polkadothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617893450776041599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-79841773428973572102014-08-26T17:48:50.630-04:002014-08-26T17:48:50.630-04:00I think your plan of scaling back on commitments i...I think your plan of scaling back on commitments is a good one. I know this may sound weird but have fun and enjoy each other. It is so beautiful to focus on the unitive aspect as you are trying for the pro-creative aspect. Flirt with each other and make him feel wanted and not just for his performance. That's what I'm trying to do anyway. Praying for you! Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13670331855264293102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-735636060989557763.post-28286533624296148792014-08-26T13:12:36.870-04:002014-08-26T13:12:36.870-04:00Clearly I have no advice that anyone in their righ...Clearly I have no advice that anyone in their right mind would take on this specific topic, but I will be praying for you, my friend. Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04738076740941616678noreply@blogger.com